For today's Motherhood Monday post, I'd love to share a few photos of Toby's first birthday party. The party was not only a special occasion for sweet Toby, but also for Alex and me, as first-time parents. It was a life-changing, whirlwind, chaotic, rollercoaster first year...and we survived!We decided to have a picnic in downtown Manhattan with the theme "New York City kid." Everyone arrived at